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Parenting plan best practices by province and state

Courts, governments and non-profit family law organizations publish free guides, templates and age-based schedules for parents. Pick where you live to see the official and non-profit resources for your province, territory or state, along with the national ones.

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Links go to independent government, court and non-profit websites. FairWell is not affiliated with these organizations and does not endorse any particular resource. We checked every link in October 2026; forms and guides change, so confirm you have the current version with your court. This page is general information, not legal advice.

In plain English

What a good parenting plan covers

The guides above differ in detail, but they agree on the basics. A good plan is written around the children's needs at their current ages, is specific enough that nobody has to guess, and says how it will change as the children grow. Most plans cover these ten areas.

  • Who decides whatHow big decisions about school, health, faith and activities get made, what each parent decides day to day, and what happens in an emergency.
  • The regular scheduleWhich days and nights the children spend in each home, with exact handover times, built around their ages, school and both parents' work.
  • HandoversWhere and how exchanges happen, who drives, who else may pick up, and what travels with the children.
  • Holidays and special daysSchool breaks, statutory holidays, religious and cultural days, birthdays and summer, and how they rotate from year to year.
  • FlexibilityHow to ask for a swap, what happens to missed time, and who looks after the children when the scheduled parent cannot.
  • Staying connectedCalls and video with the other parent, time with grandparents and siblings, and how new partners are introduced.
  • How parents communicateOne main channel, reply times, keeping messages short and about the children, and sharing school and health information.
  • Health, school and identityAppointments, medication in both homes, school meetings, additional needs, and support for each child's faith, language and heritage.
  • Travel, passports and movesNotice and consent for trips, who keeps passports, and what happens if a parent wants to move.
  • Reviews and disagreementsWhen the plan is reviewed as children grow, and the steps to take (such as mediation) before anyone goes to court.

A plan works best when it is realistic for both homes. Detail helps most where you expect friction; where you already agree, a short clause is enough. Before you sign, each parent should have it reviewed by their own family lawyer, especially if it will become part of a separation agreement or a court order.

Turn this into your own plan

FairWell's Parenting Plan walks you through every topic above with questions written for parents, then prepares a detailed, draft plan in the terms used where you live, for your lawyer to review.

See the Parenting Plan

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